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Wonderful (again!) - dear Pallavi, you write so vividly well! Hugs - Rolf

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Unusually a number of spelling mistakes in this edition of your blog, Pallavi

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Apologies!!

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I told my newly-acquainted Spanish mother-in-law that my fish was horny ('salido,' also implies horndog / sex pest) instead of salty ('salado').

She replied 'The one that's salido is you'... An ice breaker amid much awkwardness, proving that one must embrace the potential for mistakes

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😅

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The point about learning a new language and empathy is spot on. During my school days my father would get transferred every 2 odd years to a new state in India and in the process, I managed to learn some 5-6 languages along with English and Tamil and speaking in different languages helped build a connection with the locals and when you think in the laguage that you are speaking in it makes you think from another perspective.

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😂😂😂

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Great article Pallavi! Fished from yesterday but still fresh like Madrids autumn mornings; and your Chinese may be clumsy, but your English is glorious! Thank you once again for anothercdelightful article

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So entertaining, Pallavi! I grew up away from extended family and never spoke Konkani like a native. But among my cousins, I am always appreciated (and laughed at) for trying. The minute I stopped being embarrassed, the trauma turned into a journey of discovery. You are fortunate to have been able to go through this enriching process so many times over!

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